I'm Chinese guy and some of the Taiwanese and Japanese girl says Korean guys are the best.... Why is it? i'm not trying to be a racist but aren't chinese the most hansome of asian countries?,,, TT (a,,, but still some Korean guys seem really attractive and apparently tall)

Actually I've heard by an asian female friend that taiwanese guys are the best, but not only for the looks.

It's all due to the influence of K-Pop and all those Korean boy bands. They look like wussies but young gals seem to like that kinda look. Strip away all that fancy hair-styles, clothing, packaging etc they will look like your regular nong ming working in the fields in rural China.

Why do all the young girls love Justin Beiber? He looks like a girl but a lot of girls like that look. All races and people have big, small, feminine, masculine and all the looks in between. Stop focusing on race or Nationality and worry about if they, as an individual, area good person.

omg...exactly, is JB famous in China too???

Here's what I found:

Chinese guys can be appealing in looks and in terms of being fun or intellectually talented, but are too cheap... unless they're trying to impress someone from the right "class" in an arranged marriage. The girlfriend they "love" is merely a sex surrogate in the meantime.

Korean guys are really good-looking, but most drink too much, are womanizers, and make really bad decisions that land them in financial or legal trouble or, god forbid, in jail. They're hot in bed and hot-headed and hot-tempered as well. And they are real mama's boys.

Japanese guys are for the most part SO egotistical that if they fall in love with ANYONE it can only have been themselves.

In all three cases, interracial marriages would never be approved by their families.

Taiwanese guys are a**holes. And so are their families. Also, they're wussies who can't even take care of their own personal "business."


Gabriel.Long Wrote:
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> Actually I've heard by an asian female friend that
> taiwanese guys are the best, but not only for the
> looks.

Anonymous2007, you seem quite bitter about asian guys.. hehehe

Anonymous...
Why you hate so much asian guys or where do you get that "info"???

she is a scorned woman who was rejected by the family of a Chinese man she was in love with, meanwhile her X went on to lead a large company in China. I guess that I would be bitter also, but 30 years(if I read her posts correctly)??? Damn!!

Nope, just social fact.

At least I'm more generous in my analysis and observations than a Korean sociology professor, who once told me that it was social fact that all Japanese were a**holes.

Neogirl Wrote:
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> Anonymous2007, you seem quite bitter about asian
> guys.. hehehe

Actually, I completely put the affair and him out of my head ever since, because I knew he would be heading in another direction, and likely in an arranged marriage. All I did was look him up to ask if he could distribute the resume, and it was he who kept saying in each and every email afterwards (again too cheap to say by phone, even if free) that he was "deeply in love" with me and "loved [me] very, very much" and asking why I hadn't answered his letters over 30 years ago. Frankly, I had no such interest in that discussion whatsoever. Turns out he just wanted revenge anyway, and that's what's so f*cked up. Why would someone who was supposedly so happily married and successful want to get in revenge after all that time, and especially to rub in that his sister's call meant nothing, when in fact it was the reason I never got the letters until it was too late, and then it was a moot point.

No, I'm not a sicko who pines for guys from 30 years ago. But it is a reminder to me of how cheap he was and still is. And his company doesn't have any women board members or upper management at the policy-making level. And that, my brother, is DISCRIMINATION, because I'm sure there are qualified women in China or who can be recruited from abroad (as he and many others were) through their informal transnational networks to satisfy these positions.

And that's the irony of it all.... these guys return to China with Ph.D.'s from the States and MBAs and enough time working as engineers and managers and researchers to know what the score is here in the U.S. in terms of equity in the workplace, and they do nothing to develop policies for retention and promotion of women engineers and managers.

What's more, since CEO take-home pay in China has been less than in the industry in other countries (let alone the political instability and instances like the Tiananmen Square massacre), for many their motivation stemmed for returning to their or their parents' homeland was to build the country... but how can you do that when fully half the population (women) can aspire to nothing more than the secretarial pool?

Piggerman Wrote:
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> she is a scorned woman who was rejected by the
> family of a Chinese man she was in love with,
> meanwhile her X went on to lead a large company in
> China. I guess that I would be bitter also, but
> 30 years(if I read her posts correctly)??? Damn!!

And besides, after not hearing from him from a year, it was _I_ who scorned him. His sister's call prevented his letters from getting to me, kept aside by my parents in the meantime, and he was too CHEAP to even attempt to call to find out why he got no answer, nor to call during the entire summer of travel to tell me even once he loved me as he claimed in the letters I later read. So when he returned, I gave him only what his sister told me, "It's over." I turned my back and walked away. It was HE who was still in love with me. I wanted nothing more to do with him, because I was both offended by his sister and because he didn't value me as much as the price of a phone call. He in turn was surprised and shocked, but he had purposefully not called me that summer to "get even" for me not being there with him, even if it would have cost $20. So it was all the more reason for me to reject him on his return.

I was merely enticed by his recent entreaties... which were merely a draw for the mindf*ck that he intended to deliver. My opinion is that he never learned to be a gentleman in the first place... like most American guys. But since he'd be married in a set-up and eventually taught how to treat an upper-class Chinese girl from the "right" family, there was no need for his sister to worry. It was only me she ever had to get rid of, because he said he couldn't get me out of his head for 2 years (even while f*cking the Yalee), which I suppose I should take for a compliment.

i think d china dudes and the japan dudes are d ones who are meant to be debated on. Dnt put those bulky eyed,gayfeathered,proudmongers,skinnychimps called d koreans in d game!

Kivanety what's with the hate of Koreans? The description you just stated also can be seen to describe Japanese guys who are famous too.

Personally, I don't see the point of all three types being discussed. Being 1/2 Chinese, 1/4 Korean and 1/4 Japanese I will tell you that Chinese guys know how to treat their girlfriend/spouse well. Korean men are just good looking. Sure they treat their girlfriend well but I don't think they are husband material. As for Japanese guys, they are womanizers/playboys and like Korean guys aren't husband material.

To all women out there who are interested in an Asian man, if you're looking for some fun, look for a Korean or Japanese guy. If you're ready to settle down, look for a Chinese guy.

I will tell you that this is based on personal experience and hearing from other people. It doesn't mean that all Chinese, Japanese, and Korean guys out there are really like this. I guess you can see this as a generalization. So if you don't want to take this seriously, be my guest. ^_^

However, for me, none interested me. I just settled with a Latino and I'm happily married. ^-^

There are cute guys in most races.