楼上同志见解精辟，忽忽～。
Kaka121,read it and get your own opinion.
在毛泽东故乡的Alicerci ：完全同意。呵呵。。。。中国女孩好的无法用语言表达，图标是不错的诠释。

still, i think Chinese girls are way too smart..

Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 06/23/2009 09:43PM by Canuck.

They aren't any smarter than any other girl. It's just where their smart is focussed is different from the others lol.

I AM GRATEFUL FOR KIND REPLY ......( THIS IS FOR (Uberche))

WOULD LIKE TO HIGHLIGHT ONE POINT IS THAT AS MY FRIEND (Uberche) SAID SHE WILL BE TERRIFIED OF DATING INDIANS FOR THE REST OF HER LIFE ... MY FRIEND WHAT DOES IT MEAN WHAT YOU TRYING TO FIGURE OUT MY FRIEND ... ACTUALLY I GAVE HER FULL CHANCE I WAS 200% HONEST FAIR AND OPEN HEARTED WITH HER BUT SHE COULDN'T TAKE IT ...... EVEN IF ANY GIRL ASKED YOU TO WAIT AND NEVER REPLIED YOU AGAIN SO HOW WOULD YOU FEEL ABOUT THAT ......I AM ASKING YOU A QUESTION .....IF ANY GIRL ASK YOU TO CALL HER EVERYDAY AND AFTER FEW DAYS THE SAME GIRL SAYS TO YOU THAT DON'T CALL ME EVERY DAY SO HOW WOULD YOU FEEL ABOUT THAT COME ON MAN ...!!!!! WHERE IS HONESTY , COMMITMENTS , COURTESY I THINK THESE THINGS DONOT EXIST ANY MORE IN THIS WORLD ....

WHY SHE WILL BE TERRIFIED OF DATING INDIANS WHY GIVE ME AN ANSWER????? .....

WHY I SHOULD NOT BE TERRIFIED OF CHINESE GIRLS AS SHE (CHINESE GIRL) DID NOT LEAVE A GOOD IMPRESSION....... NOW MY POINT OF VIEW HAS CHANGED ABOUT CHINESE GIRLS ..... AS YOU CAN NOT TRUST THEM SIMPLE IS THAT .....

APART FROM EVERTHING I RESPECT YOU REPLIED ME

Kaka121 Wrote:
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> WOULD LIKE TO HIGHLIGHT ONE POINT IS THAT AS MY
> FRIEND (Uberche) SAID SHE WILL BE TERRIFIED OF
> DATING INDIANS FOR THE REST OF HER LIFE ... MY
> FRIEND WHAT DOES IT MEAN WHAT YOU TRYING TO
> FIGURE OUT MY FRIEND ... ACTUALLY I GAVE HER FULL
> CHANCE I WAS 200% HONEST FAIR AND OPEN HEARTED
> WITH HER BUT SHE COULDN'T TAKE IT ......

I never said she SHOULD be terrified, but she probably will be. To help you understand what I mean lets pretend you had never met an African before, one day you meet a beautiful African girl and go on a date, during the date she throws food at you, tries to punch you in the face and spits on you. After a date like that you would probably be unlikely to want to date another African even though it maybe that it was just that girl that was crazy. Again, I'm not saying you did anything wrong, just that in her eyes, in her culture, you did.

> EVEN IF
> ANY GIRL ASKED YOU TO WAIT AND NEVER REPLIED YOU
> AGAIN SO HOW WOULD YOU FEEL ABOUT THAT ......I AM
> ASKING YOU A QUESTION .....IF ANY GIRL ASK YOU TO
> CALL HER EVERYDAY AND AFTER FEW DAYS THE SAME GIRL
> SAYS TO YOU THAT DON'T CALL ME EVERY DAY SO HOW
> WOULD YOU FEEL ABOUT THAT COME ON MAN ...!!!!!
> WHERE IS HONESTY , COMMITMENTS , COURTESY I THINK
> THESE THINGS DONOT EXIST ANY MORE IN THIS WORLD

I've had girls tell me to call them everyday, I say no because I hate it. But yeah, if she said she wanted you to and then later changed her mind, it's her fault. She's the nut but I guarantee you in her mind it is your fault because you didn't understand her way of thinking and her culture. This is the problem some people have with Cross Culture relationships, both sides need to understand that there will be cultural mistakes and to just relax about them, She obviously is not ready for this type of relationship.

> WHY I SHOULD NOT BE TERRIFIED OF CHINESE GIRLS AS
> SHE (CHINESE GIRL) DID NOT LEAVE A GOOD
> IMPRESSION....... NOW MY POINT OF VIEW HAS
> CHANGED ABOUT CHINESE GIRLS ..... AS YOU CAN NOT
> TRUST THEM SIMPLE IS THAT .....

From what you said here it seems that you are...

There is nothing wrong with Chinese girls as a whole, some are crazy and some are wonderful like all women. You found a bad one, let her go and find a better girl later.

I think girls are girls, Chinese girls once you get to know them are very sweet, kind, loving, etc. However girls-Chinese, American, Latin, and all others can be ridiculous. Each race, each culture have their own way, their own flavor for being cool and being uncool. You gotta take the good with the bad. As for me Chinese are A ok in my book.

I agree they all have their good and bad.

thank you ver very much for you (Uberche) i really appreciate you have a really good command on you opinions and statements .......

but my friend even the girl is chinese or not nothing to do with a call even we had discussions before about indian , pakistani and chinese culture similarities ... lots of things are similar and she accepted that ...... i totally understand your point now (Uberche) .... you justified very well my friend but there is no chance of mistake from my end on that calling issue ...as calling issue was a root cause of our friendship breakup ....and it was simple and straight forward thing and nothing to do with culture .......

yea according to your opinion if she still thinks that its my mistake then she is completely a nut case ... leaving a really really really bad impression about chinese culture and girls ... sorry to say ...

thanks again my friend Uberche ....for your really good and generous comments

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oooooooh,seems you cared her a lot,but now turned to bitter tune,,,but if only call issue can make things so bad....ummmm,maybe you should really get over it and go ahead,, see,the wide is so world,the blue is so sky,the evil is so chinese girl...

Kaka121 I still hold to the idea that she pulled that shit on you because she had no idea what she wanted. Then in the end she felt it was safer to just go with a Chinese guy...which to be honest I don't see why a lot of Chinese girls think like this. I think ignorance towards foreigners is what causes so many of them to think like this..but the point is she wasted your time.

I think you are correct that you did everything right, but only at first. You really made things more weird when you mentioned the getting married thing.

Plupie, don't you know someone a while go made this equation that states women are the root of all evil. It's really hilarious when you go through the equation and see how it works. I'm sure if you google it you can find it lol.

Kaka121 Wrote:
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> you
> justified very well my friend but there is no
> chance of mistake from my end on that calling
> issue ...as calling issue was a root cause of our
> friendship breakup ....and it was simple and
> straight forward thing and nothing to do with
> culture .......

Actually I just re-read the calling issue. I really think that was also partly your fault. You didn't call her for a week, that's a long time. Then when she said she wanted you to call more often you called everyday, that's too much. You went from one extreme to another... why not just call every couple days?

And your thought that it had nothing to do with Culture is not true, everything has to do with Culture from how you approach a girl to how you talk to her parents to simple things like how often you should call her. In Chinese culture if you like a girl you keep in touch with them but you don't call everyday. later once you are dating and "in love" you can talk everyday. It's very much a culture issue, if you are going to date Traditional girls from culture's outside your own the first thing you should do is go online and find out as much information about their culture as you can.

And don't assume this is representative of all Chinese girls. She is traditional. If you are going to date a Traditional girl from another culture you need to be VERY VERY understanding and accepting of their cultural ideas. If you were to date a less traditional Chinese girl you'd find they were very easy going and relaxed.

LA you meant this equation


ha,let's see it from another side.

women=wo+men= 我们=evil ( this means all of us are evil)
but,we also can see
men=evil-wo=evil-我 (here ,it also proved men always want to deny they are evil.)

Anyway, sir,nice to see WOMEN leading the world.

Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 06/25/2009 05:27AM by Plupie.

Yes Plupie that is exactly the thing I was talking about LOL.

I also liked your equations, especially the first one cuz it's the one I agree with most lol. And that is we are all evil.

Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 06/25/2009 11:14AM by Lordarithon.

ha ha ha, difeents languaes but the same themes. At the spanish vertion of this site we use to talk about chinse bys nd girls, love, and friendship.

I'd like to have a chinese boyfriend

Xiao.Huan.Xiong Wrote:
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> ha ha ha, difeents languaes but the same
> themes. At the spanish vertion of this site we use
> to talk about chinse bys nd girls, love, and
> friendship.
>
> I'd like to have a chinese boyfriend


And this proves my point. Many things are the same no matter what language or culture.

Xiao.Huan.Xiong
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like the name,cute

i am a Chinese girl,and i want to make foreign friends that are true and sincere,contact me:wxboyu006@hotmail.com

after reading the post, i hear a lot about chinese girls are hot and they have hot body.
seems like the centre of attention is purely based on "how hot their body are". i believe it is not where you come from, or what nationality you are. Each individual person has a distinct qualities about them.Whether you are from asia/europe/america/australia/africa people should not judge each other on their face value but rather on heart/soul of the person.
anyway that's my 2c piece of wisdom.
But at the end women are god's perfect creation.[i][/i]

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after reading the post, i hear a lot about chinese girls are hot and they have hot body.

Depends what you consider hot. Do you like thin and small? On average Chinese girls are much smaller proportioned than Western. If you are looking for Big breasts or a big ass you might not be so thrilled. That said there are still some big breasts here and I have one Chinese friend who has about the nicest ass you could ask for so really there is a lot of variety, you just need to look harder to find it haha

Soulman you are correct. It's all about the individual, it's not about where they are from. Most Chinese girls I have met are stick skinny and have no body to even mention. Some are proportioned very nicely, and some are fat.

For me it was never about the bodies anyway, it was always the shape of their eyes. After all the shape is very unique and that is what is beautiful for me...well at least the racial beauty.

Yeah Love their eyes. and many of them love white people's eyes so it's a very good match! haha

you white people smoke some fat joints, then you can have our eyes.

LOL Canuck the really funny thing about that is I had a friend who's uncle smoked weed all the time. He'd always say, "I need to go become Jap."

Then he'd sit down and smoke bowls till he was baked good lol.

hello Cindy,

Im sure I would like you also, Im happy that your english is so good. Wode zhongwen hai bu hao, keshi wo xuexi tiantian. If you lived in beijing we might even be able to meet for coffee later if you were so interested.


Also to add to the comments, as far as height yes I like the few chinese girls Ive met, and short usually means cute or Keai to me, I had a wonderful time in beijing just chatting witha couple sweet chinese gilrs. Chinese girls seem to be far more open minded and culturally aware than most of the american girls Ive met and who can complain about a slender body compared to many of the larges ones you can find in the US.

"Chinese girls seem to be far more open minded and culturally aware than most of the american girls Ive met"

Wow... seriously?

1.
There are more than 600.000.000 females in China, twice the entire US population.

2.
There are far more men than women in China, so Chinese women get a lot of attention.

3.
Not only Chinese men compete for Chinese women, but Japanese men, Hong Kong men, and Wester men all compete for Chinese women. Especially beautiful Chinese women get a lot of serious attention all their life, they walk and think like princesses.

4.
Although China, Japan, and other Asian countries (under Western pressure) abandoned multiple marriages, Asia for thousands of years was (and still is to some extend) a place for concubines, handmaids, and rampant prostitution. It is socially acceptable for powerful Asian men to have only one wife (since 1949) but as many lovers as they can afford. [www.east-west-dichotomy.com]

In HK and Taiwan it is ok for businesmen to have lovers on the mainland. And foreigners will have observed how easy it is to get a Chinese girlfriend the one day, and the next day, when you left, they get another Western boyfriend to substitute you, but are happy if you come back one day (in case you provide better for her).

Since Chinese women know they will be cheated by their husbands after marriage, before marriage they have the bonus of incredible attention from various sources. Beautiful Chinese women literally count how much money and power you have and may shift their attention quickly to another potential guy if you don't measure up.

5.
Ways (as in 'distance') in China are shorter. In the West, building a relationship takes a long way, is time consuming and splitting up is a big thing. Not so in China because of its massive population. (Switching girlfriends in Shanghai or HK is a matter of one weekend, really).

6.
Sexual partners.

Although many men boast and sincerely believe that men have more sexual partners than women, this is illogical since it must be a 1:1 exchange. And it is. While the average French men for example has 7 sexual partner in life, the average French women has only 3. That is because we are taking into account the special average of mode. I won't explain in detail, just think about cutting of the extremes in the statistics. That said, a small number of females (not showing in most statistics) is accountable for the majority of sexual intercourses in the world. (And mind you, this is not all prostitutes, some ladies have a lot of sex although they won't tell because it is socially unacceptable).

7. Competition for powerful, well-off men

Now, since there are 600.000.000 plus females in China, many men yet really only very few powerful men, a lot of females compete for very few powerful men. And because the competition is so fierce, they will give away their bodies very very qickly simply because there definately is some other girl around who will do it if she doesn't do it quickly enough. That's why many Japanese or Western men (usually rich expats or well-off students) in China have them queuying. Same in Japan with Japanese ladies working class ladies and well-paid US soldiers.

8.
Chinese girlfriend vs. Western girlfriend

Most Western men in China prefer Asian women over Western women, mainly because of their extreme femininity, petite, slim figures, exotic bodies, cute eyes, the clothes they wear (mini-skirts and high heels more common than in the West) and body adour (they smell differently from Caucasian women, as a matter of science of sexual attractiveness). I guess, in general Western women (if they are not drop-dead gorgeous) have a hard time in China.

Hmmmmm.....

Everytime when I meet a chinese girl it makes me angry...

how much they do for french guy!

if you're a french girl it's different, they do nothing.

i think white girls care less if a guy is rich, as long as you are humour.
chinese girls care a guy if he is good looking, education, income level.

people like me, no BS, straight to the point seems aggressive to most of Chinese girls.

Lordarithon Wrote:
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> LOL Canuck the really funny thing about that is I
> had a friend who's uncle smoked weed all the time.
> He'd always say, "I need to go become Jap."
>
> Then he'd sit down and smoke bowls till he was
> baked good lol.


OMG, that's so Canadian.......
shit, i was bowling last night.
people are baked and talked shit like that.