This forum is called "Live in China". I just want to start a topic about Chinese people, or Chinese girls.

You can find so many girls around you everyday. And, I also take Japanese gilrs and Korean girls into consideration.
Nowadays, Asia women are especially welcomed for those who want to seek international dating/relationship/marriage. It is said that "Asian women tend to be extremely loyal. Once they decide that they loved you, they traditionally stand by you and support you all the way. They are dedicated to making a man the best man he could be."

But my topic here is that will you choose a Chinese, Japanese or Korean girl as your partner?

They look similar by appearance. But they are different inside. Once I argued with my friends with heated discussion. I'd like to know more thoughts here. I hope my topic won't cause misunderstanding here. I do not mean to depreciate girls form A and highlight girls from B. Just because I
appreciate girls from these three countries. They are all charming. Just like in China, we often compare beautiful girl from Chengdu, Chongqing, Hangzhou or somewhere else.

Hope to get your comments!

Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 10/31/2007 05:22AM by Olive.

你好，我是何光晖。。i'm from vietnamese.i love everybody!

Chinese perhaps... I dont know japanese and korean girls

Nowadays Japanese young ladies just seem too open, many of them just date with guys for money. And only when they grow up to about 24 or more, they will take their life seriously.

don't you mean the western girls are not loyal?

Simon2007 Wrote:
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> Nowadays Japanese young ladies just seem too open,
> many of them just date with guys for money. And
> only when they grow up to about 24 or more, they
> will take their life seriously.



I can tell you the Chinese girls are more awful than the japanese...

in fact , anything have two sides.i think there are not important difference in these girls from those three countries,because we are the same kind of man and we have the same taste for look.

You make it sound like cuisine. Shall we eat sushi? Shall we eat kimchi?

I am from Vietnam. I don't know about Chinese girls. But i like a Chinese boy. He is very nice!!!

Chinese...theyre more kind and gentle

japanese girl is quite interesting
Chinese girl is quite cute

I havent meet korean girl before XD so I dun know XD

wu liao~!

que shi hen wu liao~!

From what I've seen from ex-girlfriends (Chinese), friends (Korean) and friend's who live in Japan it's basically

Japanese girls are often very docile and very good wives
Chinese girls are often very gentle outside but dominant at home
Korean Girls are insane.

haha Sorry Korean Girls... of course Koreans are also incredibly Hot... so it's a trade off I suppose.

These are generalizations, of course they are not all that way.

I don't know Japanese and Korean girls but only from the appearance I think Japanese girls are the most cutest and sexiest one. But most Chinese girls I met are lovely, respectful and cute, too.

So, chinese girls don't care that much about the guys appearance. Whether he is ugly, fat, tall, short, good-looking or whatever.

Mainly, they pay attention what life the guy can give her now and in the future and that is unfortunately measured by the money.

Until now I prefer Chinese girls .


Best wishes

i like chinese girls, they are easy going.

I think different clutures clutivated different people... even if Chinese, Kroean and Japanese,,we have similar culture.. people from different countries, their appearances and education would be different too. It's hard to say who is nicer,, it depends on case by case...

I like Chinese girls,.. mainly because Im Chinese...

LYN

Divo Wrote:
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> Simon2007 Wrote:
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> > Nowadays Japanese young ladies just seem too
> open,
> > many of them just date with guys for money. And
> > only when they grow up to about 24 or more,
> they
> > will take their life seriously.
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> I can tell you the Chinese girls are more awful
> than the japanese...

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I can't agree with you about this. It is not the fresh news that In Japan, girls in high school start to do" yuan zhu jiao ji" via internet or other sources for money. Well, in another side, married Japanese men who seeking these kind of romantic sex trade paying money accelerate the business. But there are also some traditional Japanese girls out there.... New generations of Chinese girls are not that traditional like girls borned before 1990. Some girls may be awful and only keep an eye on money, but other girls may not, and they don't hang out in bars..

im a catwalk make-up artist, so here's a different view...
-chinese: ive seen genereally two types, very lean and long body or very short and lack of volume throughout...
i think northern girls were physically more attractive, i found girls in canton and hongkong a bit too short
and without volume but bigger face and higher cheekbone that made them look old in face... i've seen
many double eyes lids but not so big as japanese
-japanese: clearest complexion, shortest, sometimes bow legged, but a lot of girls with beautiful asian eyes without
double lid, they often have volume.
-korean: tallest generally, healthy complexion, soft faced, eyes not largest but often has charm where they become
half closed when smile

i've dated some asians and i have to say, japanese girls are most rational and does not always needs attention,
chinese girls are nice but maybe too nice... well got to say im engaged with a korean girl and she's the best for me,
sweet and tangy, quiet insane but that's what drives me to our marriage.

ciao

Tangy?

I agree with Uberche partially about the way he described the 3 girls. But to be honest I think all Asian women are insane. It's part of who they are. You watch a Chinese mother with her children and you scratch your head and wonder, "what the hell?" At least I do because I've noticed a tendency to want to live vicariously through their children to make themselves look better among their peers. To be honest it's not just chinese that do this it's all of them really. I got a friend who's mother is from Japan. The horror stories he told me about her were priceless.

Anyway who cares which country the girl comes from?? Does one culture really make the girl better than the other?? This again is another topic I hate because it's just useless. It doesn't matter to me where a girl comes from. I'm not with my wife because she is Chinese, I'm not some idiot westerner with yellow fever who has to be with an Asian girl. I'm with my wife because of who she was.

To be honest it wouldn't have made a difference to me if my wife was from Malaysia or Africa, the point is it doesn't matter where the girl is from and it shouldn't matter, and if it does matter to you, then you are going to be in some serious trouble down the road with her...if you even get that far.

they are not all that way.
you need sure What attracted you.
Say directly tis issue a bit boring

Nannan Wrote:
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> I can't agree with you about this. It is not the
> fresh news that In Japan, girls in high school
> start to do" yuan zhu jiao ji" via internet or
> other sources for money. Well, in another side,
> married Japanese men who seeking these kind of
> romantic sex trade paying money accelerate the
> business. But there are also some traditional
> Japanese girls out there.... New generations of
> Chinese girls are not that traditional like girls
> borned before 1990. Some girls may be awful and
> only keep an eye on money, but other girls may
> not, and they don't hang out in bars..

Wow... just read what you said here. That's INCREDIBLY ignorant. Japanese girls are not good because a small minority of them have sex for money but Chinese girls are good because it's only a small minority that have sex for money?

Both Japanese and Chinese girls have good and bad. Most Japanese girls are good just like most Chinese girls are good. Don't spread lies about Japanese girls, most do not take part in trading sex for LV purses.

LOL still you see it more often in Japan than you do China. But even then I doubt it happens as much as a lot of people say too.

Yeah definitely happens more but I think that's also because they chance is greater there. If you look at a city like Beijing I'd say it happens here as much as it does in Japan. Tons of girls who are prostitutes in Beijing (though they don't consider themselves prostitutes I'm sure)

Sex makes lots of money. Prostitution is possibly the oldest profession. You put those 2 ideas together and yeah it's why it is still prevalent. But men should be held responsible too. Because they pander to it...for me the idea of having to pay a larger sum of money than what a dinner and a movie costs for sex seems worthless to me. And I'd rather be able to talk to a girl about other things rather than bartering for how much her services cost...but then again I was blessed to be able to be picky about the women I want...where as there are men who do have to take what they can get...

Still it does suck when it starts getting down to 13 year olds who are sleeping with any rich guy for expensive stuff. It kinda warps their mind and sets them up for a bad life...but then again when they get older they should know better...and again this is why I hate humanity and I want to destroy the world...I know...I say this a lot here...and I say it a lot in real life too...

Yeah i agree. When I was in Jakarta there were lots of 13 year olds with 50 year old men... was disgusting. left that city quick and will never go back.

LOL I was told that goes back to the days when the Geisha would have their virginity sold off to the highest bidder. I went and asked about this. I also read once that older men with younger girls in Japan has went on for a long time because what would happen is a young girl would be married off to an old man so she can take care of him till he dies. Then she would inherit all that he had and then she'd get married again to someone more her age and in the same class of living that she was in and all that...but I don't know how true that is.

All I do know is that Japanese art depicts that Japanese men always went after very young girls or boys. Again this is why a 30 year old Japanese woman has a hard time getting married and the older a Japanese woman is and still single the more likely she will be to not ever get a husband and have a family. It's a strange society. I know if I was a girl the only way I'd be with an older man is if he still looked young and fit....kinda like how I feel about older women. If they are still young looking and fit I wouldn't have a problem....

But yeah strange culture for sure.

not different from those regions,the girl you want, just you love.

Women... what cn I say? Women are desirable, wherever they come from, and usually whatever they do!LOL