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Re: How to meet a good Chinese girlfriend?
Posted by: Lordarithon (IP Logged)
Date: May 22, 2009 02:15PM
It's hard to find a good girl....I sure know I've been through lots of them looking for a good one...

Re: How to meet a good Chinese girlfriend?
Posted by: Uberche (IP Logged)
Date: May 22, 2009 03:11PM
I've met good Chinese girls, just never sane ones... Though that goes for all girls pretty much.

Re: How to meet a good Chinese girlfriend?
Posted by: Rick.Ellis (IP Logged)
Date: May 29, 2009 09:06PM
[www.middlekingdomlife.com]

A very very VERY useful article on Chinese women. Tons of information. In a way it's funny, but you won't be laughing.

Re: How to meet a good Chinese girlfriend?
Posted by: Lordarithon (IP Logged)
Date: May 30, 2009 12:21AM
It's kinda useful. A lot of it isn't telling the whole truth. I find a lot of the sexual aspects to be left out, and utterly lied about. Cuz I doubt that I'm that good (even though I like to act like I am) to be able to get away with and have done things I've done when it came to Chinese girls/women in particular.

Re: How to meet a good Chinese girlfriend?
Posted by: Uberche (IP Logged)
Date: May 30, 2009 12:47AM
Rick.Ellis Wrote:
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> [www.middlekingdomlife.com]-
> relationships-china.htm
>
> A very very VERY useful article on Chinese women.
> Tons of information. In a way it's funny, but you
> won't be laughing.


Wow... that's very thorough. Good read for every foreigner coming to China I'd say.

Re: How to meet a good Chinese girlfriend?
Posted by: Lordarithon (IP Logged)
Date: May 30, 2009 12:40PM
You agree with all of it?? Damn I must be pure scum lol.

Re: How to meet a good Chinese girlfriend?
Posted by: Uberche (IP Logged)
Date: May 30, 2009 01:38PM
no no, not all of it definitely but it's a pretty good starter guide I think. The sex part is a bit iffy at best and other things are off I'd say but someone coming to china who had read it would be better off than not hahah

Re: How to meet a good Chinese girlfriend?
Posted by: Glad (IP Logged)
Date: May 30, 2009 10:48PM
well they have removed the article now...

Re: How to meet a good Chinese girlfriend?
Posted by: Moroes (IP Logged)
Date: May 30, 2009 11:46PM
Uberche Wrote:
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> I've met good Chinese girls, just never sane
> ones... Though that goes for all girls pretty
> much.


Maybe you should meet bad Chinese girls. They can be sane. Well at least more sane than the good ones lol.

Re: How to meet a good Chinese girlfriend?
Posted by: Uberche (IP Logged)
Date: May 31, 2009 01:49AM
Moroes Wrote:
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> Uberche Wrote:
> --------------------------------------------------
> -----
> > I've met good Chinese girls, just never sane
> > ones... Though that goes for all girls pretty
> > much.
>
>
> Maybe you should meet bad Chinese girls. They can
> be sane. Well at least more sane than the good
> ones lol.

yeah I've actually been debating switching from good girls to bar girls lately... seems A LOT less hassle and problems. But probably it would just be a whole new set of different problems actually...

Re: How to meet a good Chinese girlfriend?
Posted by: Prashanth (IP Logged)
Date: May 31, 2009 03:27AM
All chinese girlfriends a good.

Re: How to meet a good Chinese girlfriend?
Posted by: Uberche (IP Logged)
Date: May 31, 2009 04:59AM
Prashanth Wrote:
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> All chinese girlfriends a good.

Even the ones who steal your money and have three or four boyfriends at the same time?

Re: How to meet a good Chinese girlfriend?
Posted by: Lordarithon (IP Logged)
Date: May 31, 2009 11:38AM
Prashanth Wrote:
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> All chinese girlfriends a good.

Um...no.

Re: How to meet a good Chinese girlfriend?
Posted by: Chinapaul (IP Logged)
Date: May 31, 2009 07:09PM
The article hasn't been removed: the URL listed above has been truncated. The full address of the index to the section on dating and relationships is Dating, Sex, and Relationships in China.

The sections on dating and sex are focused more on girls in 2nd and 3rd tier cities but the survey on dating and marital preferences was conducted on girls in Guangzhou, so go figure. You have to read the entire article word for word to get the total meaning and it's not an easy read, but it pretty accurately represents the experiences I have had in China with dating Chinese girls.

Re: How to meet a good Chinese girlfriend?
Posted by: Edgar0 (IP Logged)
Date: June 09, 2009 11:45AM
哥们儿,得用心,用点儿心。

Re: How to meet a good Chinese girlfriend?
Posted by: Cindy20 (IP Logged)
Date: June 10, 2009 09:33PM
hi TB1570

nice to meet you here , i am a chinese girl , have been working for a few years after graduate from university , majoyed in english .
i was a interpreter before in foreigner company , they said i am a friendly , easygoing , passionate girl , i have open-minded but i am really a traditonal girl , like chinese culture and history , if you like we can be friends , learn from each other each good thing , wish you have a good day , my MSN is beatifulsnowman@hotmail.com , keep in touch . bye

Re: How to meet a good Chinese girlfriend?
Posted by: Seasonn (IP Logged)
Date: June 12, 2009 02:59AM
Well done, Uberche

Re: How to meet a good Chinese girlfriend?
Posted by: Plupie (IP Logged)
Date: June 12, 2009 04:35AM
if you are confident yourself is good enough,you will meet good girl of your own defination eventually

Re: How to meet a good Chinese girlfriend?
Posted by: Lordarithon (IP Logged)
Date: June 12, 2009 10:06AM
You are so right Plupie, confidence is the key to all success.

Re: How to meet a good Chinese girlfriend?
Posted by: Guestpass0001 (IP Logged)
Date: June 12, 2009 10:39AM
True, but you need to know what you're looking for in a girl. Also, people hide or don't tell their bad things about themselves...until it's too late.

Re: How to meet a good Chinese girlfriend?
Posted by: Lordarithon (IP Logged)
Date: June 12, 2009 11:23AM
Well when it comes to becoming interested in someone it's hard to see the bad stuff at first. You do get a bit clouded. You just have to try your best.

Re: How to meet a good Chinese girlfriend?
Posted by: Plupie (IP Logged)
Date: June 12, 2009 11:40AM
um,complicated satuation,could eat your brain use up all human intelligence.

Re: How to meet a good Chinese girlfriend?
Posted by: Guestpass0001 (IP Logged)
Date: June 12, 2009 11:40AM
I think it's good to make a list on what you're looking for in a girl, and if the girl meets at least 75% - 80%, better consider not letting her go!

Re: How to meet a good Chinese girlfriend?
Posted by: Uberche (IP Logged)
Date: June 12, 2009 12:02PM
Unless part of that 20% is something important of course... like has an Adam's Apple and was originally named Frank... winking smiley

Re: How to meet a good Chinese girlfriend?
Posted by: Guestpass0001 (IP Logged)
Date: June 12, 2009 12:09PM
That's why better include on the list to check and make sure she's not a he before anything gets started !

Re: How to meet a good Chinese girlfriend?
Posted by: Plupie (IP Logged)
Date: June 12, 2009 12:21PM
haha,this ,it all depends......

Re: How to meet a good Chinese girlfriend?
Posted by: Lordarithon (IP Logged)
Date: June 12, 2009 01:42PM
LOL trust me you'll be able to tell right away if she was a he at first. The surgery is all too obvious.

Re: How to meet a good Chinese girlfriend?
Posted by: Girlsh (IP Logged)
Date: June 16, 2009 10:32AM
Brettcahan Wrote:
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> I think the advice you've given is good. I live in
> Shandong province. I have been in China only three
> weeks, and I like a woman who is another teacher
> here. She's very smart and has a masters degree in
> economics. Not married, and I don't think she has
> a BF. I'm don't know if there could be anything
> there. I asked her to be my teacher once, but she
> refused. She said she'd teach me at school, but
> she wanted time to rest at home. Her friend
> admitted to me it was really because maybe it's
> not so good for Chinese women to go around at
> night with foreigners like that.
>
> How would I let her know how I feel? Would it ruin
> my relationships at school if I did? Would it
> really matter anyway, or is there no way she'd
> ever be interested in me? Another factor that
> would probably work against me is that I'm 42 and
> she's 27. What do others think?

1.她在保持礼貌性的距离.2.年龄问题(generation gap)3.从您的只字片语可以推测出她是个优秀的女孩,懂得把握分寸,自尊自爱,外加一口流利的英语.4.站在您的角度,好好把握机会,以百分之百的真心获得女孩的芳心.5.从她的立场出发,和您做普通朋友是个不错的选择.如果这样优秀,风华正茂的女孩和您进一步发展,我会觉得可惜,惋惜,痛惜!
结论(conclusion)放了她也放了你自己.Give up.

Re: How to meet a good Chinese girlfriend?
Posted by: Girlsh (IP Logged)
Date: June 16, 2009 10:34AM
keep polite distance with her,pls.

Re: How to meet a good Chinese girlfriend?
Posted by: Matty (IP Logged)
Date: June 21, 2009 08:53AM
Your entire question will lead you in the wrong direction.
Firstly, stop looking for a girlfriend, avoid getting a girlfriend at all costs, there are many many nice Chinese girls out there, don't be in a rush, don't search, be patient and you will meet the right girl. Rushing is what will get you stuck with a bad girl.
Secondly the people you want to meet, don't want to meet you.
The best way to meet a good Chinese girl is through non-foreign friends.
If they want you to help them with English, don't.
I recommend joining some university clubs, maybe martial arts or something, something that interests you.
The people who have no interest in you, want nothing from you. If they become your friend, it's for no motives and many of those will become good friends.
Just try and take in as much Chinese culture as you can, be with Chinese people and be almost Chinese. You'll soon find that everywhere is filled with good girls. If you're looking for a girlfriend you'll be seen as a foreigner with bad motives.
I've been here for a few years now, I'm relatively well known and I have no girlfriend. I'm now known as honest and everyone knows my motives, I don't just jump into a relationship, I'm in no rush and the world is open to me.
I could find a good girlfriend easily, but I'm waiting for the right one, the important thing is many people know this and my honesty, which generates trust. Trust I've earnt and deserve.

Just be honest, and in China, be Chinese.

Don't rush looking for a girlfriend, expose yourself to Chinese culture on daily activities and clubs that aren't related to foreigners.
You'll soon find out they're not so rare.
But if you start treating girls wrong or look like a playboy your reputation will be destroyed and the normal girls wont look at you.

The end truth is, you're not after a "good girl", you're after a normal girl with no motives. Once you realise this, and know that you need to earn respect and also deserve it, you'll find such issues fade away. You'll have so much choice that you can take your time to select the right girl. Just don't rush in and try one after another till you find the right one, that will be counter productive. You're not in the west anymore.

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