Finding a partner, flerting, dating and asking someone out is a complicated task anywhere in the world, but trust us, in China is certainly more complicated. But not impossible! We, as your Chinese love advisor are going to give you some tips on how to ask someone out.

Chinese girls are really serious about dating. Usually they won't go out on a date with you unless she is really familiar with you. If you want to date a girl, you'd better hang out with her several times before a formal date. In the first few times, don't ask her out alone, it's better to ask some friends that both of you know, in that way she won't feel unconfortable in front of you. After two or three times of this kind of "date" and if you notice that she enjoyed the time spent with you, you may ask her out for a formal date alone.

For the women out there, whether you like it or not, all we can say is that Chinese men behave pretty much like western men.

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90% of Chinese girls who would like to date and marry a foreigner are not because they love him, but because they want to emigrate. Sorry if this frustrates you, but it is true.

It's true that a lot of Chinese girls dating a foreigner for emigration, but I'm not sure whether 90% is true.

Yes, and some Chinese girls want to date a foreigner simply because the Chinese men will not accept her anymore if she is divorced, over 40, and with a child. Is this really fair?

that's ture...it's a big burden

Some girls would like to emigrate through marrige, but less and less of them choose this way now.


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No Chinese women will be willing to marry a foreign guy, or even an Asian guy, if he can't do the paperwork and bring her out of her misery in a Communist / Socialist country. I'm Chinese. I'm getting my gf out of Vietnam soon (no, she's not Vietnamese. She's Chinese.), so she can marry me in the USA! It's a bit hard to get your lady out of the country, if she's not engaged or married to you in another country. If she's engaged or married to you in her own country, it'll take more time. I encourage Chinese people to marry Chinese people so it won't pollute the gene pool. Foreigners can't even take care of themselves: they can't make money, So, they will take their little money to bring the ladies over, then turn them into slaves, because these suckers won't be willing to go work and get money. So, the women will have to go and make money, so these foreign guys will be slackers and stay home the whole freaking day.

"....some Chinese girls want to date a foreigner simply because the Chinese men will not accept her anymore if she is divorced, over 40, and with a child."
Only in China. If you are a man, and you love the woman, you will do whatever you can to take care of her, despite her age. I mean if you found someone your own age, which would not be the case for foreigners, because these a-holes are out there to take away the young and beautiful ladies from the Chinese men, so the Chinese men are left with no choice, but old, ugly and or both. If a Chinese man fell in love with a Chinese woman younger than him, he should not wait, but rather try to do his best to keep her and make her his wife. Otherwise, these young ladies will find a rich old foreigner to marry, since the Chinese guy is not willing to make an effort to keep his love by his side.

Edited 2 time(s). Last edit at 08/05/2012 10:00AM by Trien.